Saturday, August 30, 2008

I do puke, Mark does blood...it's really that simple.

Mark and I have this deal. He is a sympathy puker. So when the kids are sick and they are puking, I take care of it. ANYTHING else the kids need and he is there for them. When they puke they are on their own. While blood doesn't make me feel faint it DOES make me sort of feel panicky. Hence our deal. I do puke, Mark does blood.

I began to realize that this was NOT a fair deal fairly soon into Marks first patrol. Hey now....I was having to deal with the puke AND blood! What the heck? So while Mark has had his fair share of 'blood' (Paige has split her head open three times..all while Mark was home THANK GOD) there have been times when I have had to deal with it while he is gone. Today was a good example. I took the kids with me to the hairdresser while I got my hair cut. Now they LOVE to go with me. They get to pick a special snack AND Cathy (my hairdresser) hands over the control of the tv remote to them! So while there today, Ben was sitting on the very slippery bench and slipped off. He hit the edge of a metal coat rack with his butt first (owie!) then continued to slide and hit his head. There was that dreaded silence. The silence that EVERY parent knows. It is the silence before the storm. I looked over at him and he was trying SO hard to be a big brave boy. But I could tell he was hurting. I asked him what had happened and where he was hurt and he said he fell on his butt and he was ok...but as he went back to the bench he started to cry. So up I got, wet hair and all and checked him out. At first I thought it was 'just' his tailbone that was hurt. But being the person I am and ALWAYS check the kids heads. I don't know why I do this, I just do. Maybe it's because I know that head wounds bleed profusely and if I can check it and staunch the flow early on I will be ok. Anyways, there it was..a nice little gash...but not bleeding..more like 'seeping'. Ben came as close to splitting his head open as you can get without actually splitting it open! YAY Ben...no blood...well, at least not copious amounts of it. The gals all ran around getting cloths and ice etc. and in no time at all we had Ben laughing and back to his old wonderful self.....

It was a close call. I guess he's heard us talking and knows he can't bleed when Mark is on mission! Puke yes...blood NO...lolol...


Here is a picture of the 'almost split open head'. Of course, Ben thinks this picture is WAY cool!

Thursday, August 28, 2008

Americas first BLACK President?

Ok. Someone has some 'splainin to do! I am confused (trust me it doesn't take much!). Everyone is all excited that if Barack Obama (I am voting for him, actually Mark is voting for him because I can't!) is elected as the next President of the United States, he will have made history as the first African American President. UH? True, his father is Black, but his mother is as caucasian as they come! Born and raised in Wichita Kansas! Why is Barack being labeled BLACK? He is just as much WHITE as he is BLACK.

Five other Presidents in American history have black ancestry. Harding, Jackson, Jefferson, Lincoln and Coolidge all have black heritage in their histories. Why were THESE Presidents not said to be black Presidents? Is it because their skin tone took after the caucasian side of their family? What if they had taken on a darker tone? Would they even have been voted in? Is Barack playing the 'black' card because he thinks America is finally ready for an African Amercian in the White House? If he was running for President 50 years ago, would he have said he was white?

I just find this all very interesting to say the least. As far as I am concerned, if Barack is elected President (and I hope he is!!) he won't be the FIRST Black President this country has had, he will be the 6th. He will also be the 43rd WHITE President elected.

I just don't get the hooplah. But not a bad American History lesson from a Canadian gal right? :)

Hugs to all,
Jaye

Wednesday, August 27, 2008

O Frabjous Day! Callooh! Callay!

I was sitting in the dentists office today when my phone started to vibrate. I was expecting it to be one of two people. But to my joy and surprise it was MARK!! I guess they had to surface for some reason or other and all the guys were standing topside calling their wives! YES!!! It is always nice after weeks and weeks of not hearing from him to be able to hear his voice! We have been very lucky this mission in that we have been able to send and receive email with some regularity, but to hear his voice was very nice indeed! Ben got to say hi and tell him that when he gets home we are going to the Go Kart track here in town. Paige was in the dentist chair but they held the phone up to her ear so she could hear her daddy! :)

It made my day to say the least....

Hugs to all,
Jaye

ps. My title? It's from a famous poem, can you tell me which one??

3 years, 6 months, 1 week...but who's counting?

I am so glad we decided to make this blog private! This way I can let you all know about the stupidity and 'huh?' moments we deal with on a regular basis with Mary. As my Grandpa Charlie would have said "When God was handing out brains, she was standing behind the door".

So...I'll make the story short! When Shelby flew out for Spring break, Mary paid the unaccompanied minor fee (UA fee from here on in) out of Chicago. When Mark went to Seatac to pick Shelby up at the gate he waited while all the passengers got off. No Shelby. All the crew got off. No Shelby. By that point he was thinking 'Mary didn't put her on the plane' . He called me and I said "no, she has to be there. I called the airlines when the flight left and she was checked in". So Mark went to the crew still standing at the gate and asked 'is there anyone else on board'. Nope. 'Are you sure?' Yup. 'Could you PLEASE go check?'. Eyes rolled..but the crew went to check. Oh..yah...she was on the plane sitting by herself waiting for someone to escort her off (by now Shelby knows the drill with flying UA).

They had all just assumed someone else would get her and didn't bother to double check! See what $100 buys you with United? lolol....Mark then goes to the United service desk and lets it be known that he is NOT angry (Mark never gets mad...), that he doesn't 'want' anything..he just wants them to know what happened and that for the fee that is paid for someone to keep track of his child, they had better do a better job. The lady was SO apologetic and gave Mark a $100 coupon for Shelbys next flight out. He explained that we book online, but this was no problem according to her. Just bring your credit card you used to book the flight with, the itinerary and the coupon to the United kiosk the next time you fly Shelby in and viola the amount will be applied back to your card. So we did that for the summer visit. Only when I went to the kiosk to get the $100 put back on my card, they wouldn't do it! UH? I was told I had to pay for the ticket at the AIRPORT not online. I didn't argue. I just decided to handle this another time, another way.

So began the phone call log. I started calling numbers in June. Being in the legal profession, I always keep a log when doing something like this. Time called, whom I spoke to, date called etc. I talked to no less than 37 different people in probably as many different countries, none of which being the good old US of A! Some I couldn't understand, some couldn't understand me, but ALL said that the 'policy was'....and proceeded to explain to stupid little me just what the policy was.
After two months of this crap, I went on the United website, found an email address and told the story (paid the UA fee, your company lost track of my child, got a coupon, you failed to honor it and now I have a phone log with 37 different people on it and no one can help) and also informed them that they had three days to get back to me with a resolution OR I would contact CNN, Good Morning America and every other major US news agency with the story that they lost my child and didn't do anything about it!

The next day I got a call. The lady was ever so sorry (and lo and behold, was in the USA!). She said she had refunded the credit card used to pay the UA fee in Chicago. I said 'ok, well, you just gave my husbands ex wife $100 bucks, which is ok with us but WE are the ones with the coupon that won't be honored'. She said 'well, I see your credit card that you used to book the ticket with. I will put $100 back on that AND send YOU an e certificate that you can use next flight no matter HOW you book your ticket. Hows that?" I said GREAT! Then emailed Mary to let her know she would see a 'refund of UA fee' on her credit card statement and wanted her to know the story (ok, I left out the part that we got an e certificate...forgive me!). I told her that we each got a $100 refund out of the airlines for the mix up with Shelby.

OK! So the STUPIDITY I had to deal with? I get a letter from Mary two days ago. Was it a 'hey, THANKS for fighting for a refund for me' letter? Nope... 'The airlines refunded me the UA fee. YOU didn't send Shelby back UA so that means that YOUR refund was for the airfare which we split evenly. This means you owe me half of your refund'. UH? Is she THAT dumb?

I emailed her back and said 'Actually, we EACH got $100. YOURS was refunded directly to your credit card beacause you used it in Chicago to pay for the UA fee. OURS was put on our credit card because we used it to book the ticket. We EACH got $100. You are NOT getting yours AND half of ours'. I also told her that I didn't HAVE to get her a refund, that I could have just got one for us and not said a thing! I then went on to say how I keep her in my prayers. That I pray that God can work on her heart and let her see that all the things she does to get back at Mark is really only affecting Shelby.

I bet THAT really made her day! :)

So like my title says, 3 years, 6 months and 1 week. But who's counting?

Hugs to all...
Jaye aka the refund getter! lol

Tuesday, August 26, 2008

Ribbet....Ribbet

So Dino the lizard is no more. He died. In case you don't remember, Mark chopped his tail off with the weed whacker last summer. He was an alligator lizard, native to WA state. Paige rescued him and then her and Mark went to petsmart and spent over $70 on a stupid habitat etc for the damn thing. He lived a great life. Crickets...lovely habitat etc. Paige wasn't too sad when he died. As she said "He lived a good life mama. If he'd been left outside a bird would have eaten him so he lived a lot longer than he normally would have'. Good attitude I guess!

Well...a few weeks ago, Paige (our animal kid!) found a big old tree toad and put him in the habitat with Dino ( I kind of wonder if this didn't kill Dino). She named this ugly old toad "Wembley'. Cute name...ugly frog. This week, she found two tiny frogs. In the house they came and into the habitat they went (at least it's not going to waste!). They were quickly dubbed "Hopper" and "Peeps". Cute names, cute frogs!

Tonight we looked into the habitat and Hopper was sitting on Wembleys head who was sitting in the water area. Apparently they are good friends now!

So, along with the bird, two cats, and hamster, we now have three frogs.

Lucky me.

Hugs
Jaye

Monday, August 25, 2008

Summer Storm

Today was a really nice sunny day. Not hot..but not cold. Then all of a sudden the heavens opened up and the thunder and lightning started! It was an AWESOME display of mother nature! Mark loves storms like this but as he is out to sea way under the water, this movie will have to suffice when he gets home! The storm lasted about 20 minutes and then was over....what a weird summer we have had here in WA state. I hope it's not indicative of what our winter is going to be like (read SNOW..lots of it!).

About 17 seconds in you can hear the thunder!!
Enjoy!

Hugs
Jaye